Those who know you don't need explanations, those who don't won' t believe you !” ~Chris Geiger
Never explain-your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway. ~Elbert Hubbard
We have, as human beings, a storytelling problem. We're a bit too quick to come up with explanations for things we don't really have an explanation for.~Malcolm Gladwell
Sometimes the askers are well-meaning, and sometimes they are just gossipmongering.
"If you love someone, set him free; if you have to stalk him, he probably wasn't yours in the first place."
“ And I told him, I said: "One day you're going to miss the subway because it's not going to come. One of these days, it's going to break down and it's not going to come around and everyone else will just wait for the next one or will take the bus, or walk, or run to the next station: they will go on with their lives. And you're not going to be able to go on with your life! You'll be standing there, in the subway station, staring at the tube. Why?Because you think that everything has to happen perfectly and on time and when you think it's going to happen! Well guess what! That's not how things happen! And you'll be the only one who's not going to be able to go on with life, just because your subway broke down. So you know what, you've got to let go, you've got to know that things don't happen the way you think they're going to happen, but that's okay, because there's always the bus, there's always the next station...you can always take a cab.~C. JoyBell C.
There is no such thing as a "broken family." Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you.~C. JoyBell C.
“ We can't be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean,a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don't have something better. ~C. JoyBell C.
Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over.~Nicole Sobon
The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go of yesterday.
Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.
Know that everything is in perfect order whether you understand it or not.~Valery Satterwhite
If you have ever, sir, been through a breakup of a romantic relationship that involved great love, you will perhaps understand what I experienced. There is in such situations usually a moment of passion during which the unthinkable is said; this is followed by a sense of euphoria at finally being liberated; the world seems fresh as if seen for the first time then comes the inevitable period of doubt, the desperate and doomed backpedaling of regret; and only later, once emotions have receded, is one able to view with equanimity the journey through which one has passed.~Mohsin Hamid
If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don't. It's not that complicated. Love, in most cases, betrays the one feeling it. Don't waste moments waiting and wondering. Don't throw away your time dreaming of someone that doesn't want you. No one is that amazing, certainly not the one who would pass you up.~Donna Lynn Hope
One of the best times for figuring out who you are & what you really want out of life?Right after a break-up. ~Mandy Hale
Breakups have a way of shaking us awake and helping us see what we really want vs. what we are willing to settle for.
Two words. Three vowels. Four consonants. Seven letters. It can either cut you open to the core and leave you in ungodly pain or it can free your soul and lift a tremendous weight off your shoulders. The phrase is: It's over.~ Maggi Richard
You go to work the next day pretending nothing happened. Your co-workers ask if everything's okay and you tell them you're just tired. And you're trying to smile. And they're trying to smile.~Richard Siken
The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.~Greg Behrendt
When things break, it's not the actual breaking that prevents them from getting back together again. it's because a little piece gets lost -- the two remaining ends couldn't fit together even if they wanted to. the whole shape has changed.
“ To love someone enough to let them go, you had to let them go forever or you did not love them that much."~ Diana Wynne Jones
Either give me your hand, or end it now, and put us both out of our misery.~Judith McNaught
“ Sometimes you want to say, “I love you, but…” Yet the “but” takes away the ‘I love you’. In love their are no ‘buts’ or ‘if’s’ or ‘when’. It’s just there, and always. No beginning, no end. It’s the condition-less state of the heart. Not a feeling that comes and goes at the whim of the emotions. It is there in our heart, a part of our heart…eventually grafting itself into each limb and cell of our bodies. Love changes our brain, the way we move and talk. Love lives in our spirit and graces us with its presence each day, until death.
To say “I love you, but….” is to say, “I did not love you at all”
Love ends. But friends are forever.
You'll be that girl who'll never break up with me.
I never intend to fit in. I intend to stand out.
Restraint above all else.
Don't look for perfection. It does not exist.
I hate guys who always have back-up plan. A guy who is afraid to risk and to be rejected. Therefore, he does not tell what he truly feels.
I want to be free, keeping my options open while not locking myself into anything.
When a person runs out of stories to tell, he/she ends up sharing someone else's story and sometimes secrets. That's where GOSSIPS originated.
It becomes love when you're with the right person.
Sometimes the hardest person to get over with is the person you never had.
It's like music to my ears when they call me DESTINY. #FashionInvasian
When your ex unfriends you, it's not because she's bitter. She's just trying to move on.
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